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Monday March 19 2012

Pearls of Wisdom: US Wedding Trends

Wedding planning in the UK is a constantly growing industry and here at Just Bespoke we are always looking to increase our knowledge, meet suppliers and improve our business in order to provide a first class, professional and knowledgable service to our clients.

With this in mind, over the last two weeks we have been back to school. Most recently attending Blogshop in London to learn the basics and more of Photoshop to help improve our website and blog and increase our design knowledge and know-how for our clients. And, the previous week, we spent two days in the company of fellow members of the UK Alliance of Wedding Planners at the annual Wedding Planning Excellence Seminar.

A big part of my job is to make the ordinary extraordinary and as Preston Bailey puts it ‘create affordable dreams’. To do this, I am forever searching for inspiration and ideas and many of these come from across the atlantic as the American wedding industry is still more advanced compared to here in the UK.

So, I was really pleased to be able to hear from Whitney Wing-Drake, a US wedding planner who runs Wish Wonder Dream in California, at WPE’12. Whitney gave us the low-down on US wedding trends so that we know what to look out for in the months ahead.

Key Trends…

Burlap
Burlap (or hessian) is becoming a popular choice of material in US weddings. Teamed with lace to create a rustic-feel tablescape, used as ties for floral bouquets, and not forgetting burlap favour bags.

Cake Toppers
Having a cake topper on your wedding cake used to be quite one dimensional…a slightly tacking-looking figurine of a bride and groom. However 2012 is all about the custom cake-topper – from laser-cut wording and perspex figures, to unusual objects and fancy shapes – what’s on top of your cake is a big focus this year.

Itineraries
As a big lover of stationery and printed goods at weddings, I was quite upset when Whitney said that the traditional Order of Service was becoming less common at ceremonies over in the States. However, while we may be waving goodbye to ceremony programmes, we are welcoming wedding itineraries in all shapes, prints and sizes, which detail the wedding party but also double-up as an itinerary for guests so that they know what to expect during the day.

First Look
As a big reader of the US blogs, I became familiar with this term earlier last year however it appears that ‘First Looks’ are definitely on the increase for American couples. The concept is simple – the bride and groom choose to see each other, in private, before the ceremony and have it captured in photos. As these become more common-place, couples are becoming more creative regarding how they create their ‘First Look’ making for some really lovely imagery.

In the Round
Last year I planned the wedding of an American couple here in the UK and they elected to have a ‘Ceremony in the Round’. This is a great idea as it puts the bride and groom in the centre of a circle of chairs as they take their vows, enabling all of the guests to have a prime viewing spot during the ceremony and ensuring that the couple remain the total focus throughout.

Bistro Lighting
Couples are opting for urban and rustic decor for their weddings with a big increase in the number of weddings taking place under the beam of bistro lights – bare bulbs strung from trees, beams and ceilings – to create an intimate and romantic atmosphere for the ceremony and wedding breakfast.

Tiffany shared a number of other US wedding trends which we’ll be posting here on the blog in April so be sure to come back then to see what other style and design ideas are proving popular at weddings in the US this year.

Credits
Burlap | Ruffled
Custom | Miss Cake
Itineraries | Under Consideration
First Look | Next Exit Photography via Wedding Bee
In the round | Tony Page
Bistro | Beyond Beyond


Tuesday December 7 2010

Pearls of Wisdom: Never under-estimate your man…

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The perfect proposal

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This post goes out there to anyone who has ever dreamt of getting married but doesn’t think that their turn will come…

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That was me…until ten days ago when something quite unexpected happened to me which took me by complete surprise and left me grinning like a cheshire cat…I got engaged…in New York…with a gorgeous sparkler of a diamond…and now i’m planning my own wedding…! UKAWP friends, I may well be picking your brains over the coming months!

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As fans of Just Bespoke will know, I love planning weddings…everything about them from hearing the proposal stories, choosing the venues, bringing a couple’s dreams to life…and watching them say ‘I do’…and it all feels quite surreal to now be planning my own – as well as other peoples.

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However, one thing that I have learnt in the process is that you really shouldn’t assume anything!

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I was the girl who was happily living with her boyfriend, going on fun date nights which often ended with dancing on the sofa in in the early hours of the morning, and enjoying holidays to cool places…but we were not getting married and in fact, my boyfriend had me convinced that it would’t be happening for a long time yet…how wrong I was!

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Every time I was aksed by friends and family…”Do you think that you’ll get married soon?”, “How do you think he’ll propose?”, “Would he know what ring to get?”…my responses were always the same…”No, not for a while yet, we have so much on”, “I think i’ll know when its going to happen”, “No, he never listens when I drop any form of hint…”…again, how wrong I was!

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In actual fact, when my boyfriend did propose in Locanda Verde at The Greenwich Hotel in NYC on Thanksgiving, I genuinely had absolutely no idea that he had been planning the proposal for the last year, had been on many a secret mission to ask my dad, pick a ring, look through my wedding planning folders to understand the four C’s for choosing the best diamond and had researched how to do it…in the end choosing a totally subtle proposal that really knocked my socks off and which i’ll remember forever.

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So, if you’re convinced that it isn’t going to happen to you…seriously, think again and really never under-estimate your man, chances are he has it all figured out and has done for months and is just waiting for the perfect moment…

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I’m now over the moon to be planning my own dream wedding and am looking forward to sharing the decisions, the excitement and the nerves with Just Bespoke couples over the next year as we go on our wedding planning journey together.

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If you want to find out more about my wedding plans, then make sure you check in with the lovely Debs at Belle Amour as i’ll be posting regular updates on her fab blog over the next 12 months…

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I hope you enjoy it x

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Credits
New York Skyline: University of Nebraska Kearney
The Greenwich Hotel: Hotels of the Rich and Famous


Monday September 27 2010

Pearls of Wisdom: Setting the date

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Yippee Yay – we’ve set the day!

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He’s got down on one knee, said the four magic words, you’ve stuttered/muttered/shouted/shrieked ‘Yes’ in reply, hugged, cried and danced around like children…and then the planning begins…

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Every proposal is different and unique and special in its own little way but once the question and the champagne cork have been popped, its time to start thinking about the when, where, how and what of the wedding itself. And for many, the biggest hurdle is the first hurdle…deciding on a date.

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So, here are few glimmering pearls of wisdom from Just Bespoke about popular wedding dates…

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1. Money Money Money
Many suppliers will charge a premium for weddings taking place on certain dates such as Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve, so if you are trying to keep costs down then try to avoid these dates if possible.

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2. Viva Las Vegas
Consider whether you want to share your wedding day with other brides…while many people around the world get married on the same day, you probably don’t want to see a huge raft of other brides at your venue on your wedding day, queuing for their turn to say ‘I do’. If this is the case, it might be worth avoiding dates such as Valentine’s Day and destinations such as Las Vegas. In Sin City, as Vegas is often referred, there are an average of 150 weddings each day, not to mention the 27,000 people who flocked to the city to get married on 14th February this year! (Useful knowledge from a Vegas cab driver during my recent trip!)

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3. May the fourth be with you
Be flexible. If you know you want to get married on a certain date to celebrate a particular occasion, some of your plans may need to change to accommodate the date. A lovely bride recently told me she knew the date of her wedding but not the year as she was determined to marry on Star Wars Day but wanted her wedding to fall on a Friday or Saturday so she was having to postpone her plans until the right date and day came up.

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4. Quickety quick
Book everything as far in advance as possible. Weekends in June, July and August are always very popular – especially around bank holidays – so get your booking in the venue’s diary before another couple does.

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5. Family matters
And finally…think about your friends and family. If you want to make sure they can all attend then figure out a day which is going to work for them. It might be difficult for people to get days off work during the week (despite it being cheaper for you!) so weekends are often the best way to ensure everyone can make it to see you up the aisle.

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And of course, once you’ve set the date and need help with the rest of your wedding planning, don’t forget to give us a call!

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Credits
Photography: Travelblog